Wednesday, June 24, 2015

Southern Battle Flag; fly it or hide it? What say you?

 There is currently a massive removal going on of the southern battle flag. I have thought about this all day and I'm still pondering my final decision on how I feel about the whole mess.
  The debate on the purpose of the flag will go on forever. It will go on because no matter what, people will find  a way to get that flag and comments will be made by those who see it. There are those who say it is part of southern history, it is that yes. There are those who will say that brave men fought under that flag, true.
 Was that flag though, a part of a war that was due to one part of the country encroaching on and trying to tell another part what, when and how to do what they've done for years, or was it to protect that right to keep slaves?  Was that flag a symbol of courage or a symbol of racism and hate?
  There are many voices crying out over this issue, from both sides. Both are right, both are wrong.
 The flag is a symbol of southern history, but it was never meant to be a symbol of hatred. Like other items in the past it has been taken by groups and individuals who thrive on hate, thrive on violence, thrive on the very things that tear apart a neighborhood, a region or a country.  The fact, and it is fact, that groups such as the klan took this flag and turned it into a symbol of something ugly has tarnished its meaning. I read that the swastika was a symbol of good luck until Hitler used it. Now no matter what its past was, it will forever be tied to Hitler and his movements. Now when one sees the swastika they immediately think one thing, and it isn't good luck. It has been used over and over for racist, hate filled reasons, and those are what people will always see.
 Sadly, it is the same with the Southern Battle Flag. It will be seen as someone meant to divide and destroy. It will not be seen as a part of history but a part of pain.  With each hate filled group or individual that uses the flag to promote their own agenda it only gets worse.
 My personal opinion is that the flag does not need to fly on government property. Its presence may bring a feel good moment to some, but to others who see the flag it brings pain and distress. But there is a problem with removing this flag, what precedent will that set? Are we not already so deep into political correctness that soon we may drown in it? It is impossible to not offend someone. No matter what you do, what you say, how you dress or act or what flag you fly, someone is going to be offended. If you try to remove or stop all activities that offend, we will be able to do nothing. We would be trapped in our own homes because our clothing offends, but then we can't run around naked because that offends...Muslims are offended by the Christian faith while  Christians are offended by the word that schools are going to begin teaching children about anal sex and masturbation. Blacks believe they are profiled by police and middle class whites think they are being forgotten and abused...
Where, do you draw the line?
 At what point do we turn around and say, while I realize my ___________ offends you, as long as my ______ is not illegal, immoral or indecent, I have a right to do, say, wear this and you have a right to not look. As long as my words and actions are not hurting others physically or emotionally, do I not have the right to speak? Which brings me back to the flag........our country has a lot of history, good, bad, ugly, history of strength and of heart. In that history there are a lot of symbols, removing them from sight, won't change that.
Maybe, its time we grew up a bit and realized that our strength, our heart, our spirit really can't be damaged by the sight of a flag, and move on to more important things.